If you’ve ever seen Father of the Bride (1991), you know that Franck Eggelhoffer is a wedding planner unlike any other. Equal parts quirky and genius, Franck has an eye for elegance and a knack for managing chaos—all while delivering unforgettable events. (*Plus, did you know he was based on the real-life luxury wedding planner Kevin Lee?!*) Here are five key wedding planning lessons inspired by Franck that every couple (and planner) should keep in mind:

1. Details Matter

Franck’s meticulous attention to detail is unmatched, and it’s a reminder that the little things truly make a big difference. From perfectly folded napkins to the ideal lighting, these finishing touches create a cohesive and memorable experience. So, don’t underestimate the power of those “small” details—they’re what take an event from good to extraordinary.

2. Hire Experts

As Franck demonstrates, sometimes you need to call in the pros. Wedding planners, florists, and designers exist for a reason: to bring your vision to life while letting you focus on enjoying the process. Don’t be afraid to outsource tasks to professionals who can handle the logistics, leaving you free to savor every special moment.

3. Be Adaptable

Let’s be honest—no wedding goes 100% according to plan. Franck’s ability to think on his feet (remember the swans in the bathtub? Honestly, what a vibe.) proves that flexibility is critical. Whether it’s a last-minute weather change or a vendor hiccup, staying calm and adaptable ensures that the day still feels magical.

4. Budget Talks Are Key

Franck isn’t shy about pushing the boundaries of George’s budget, but his antics highlight an important lesson: clear communication about costs is essential. Couples and planners should be upfront about financial priorities to ensure everyone is on the same page and avoid unwelcome surprises.

5. Celebrate Love Above All Else

For all his eccentricity, Franck never loses sight of what a wedding is really about: celebrating love. At the end of the day, it’s not about the swans or the floral arrangements—it’s about the couple and the beginning of their journey together. Keeping this perspective helps everyone focus on what truly matters.

Franck’s flair for drama and style makes him an unforgettable character, but his approach to wedding planning is packed with real-life wisdom. Whether you’re planning your own big day or working as a wedding professional, these lessons are worth keeping in mind.

Need help channeling your inner Franck? Let’s connect and create a wedding as fabulous as your love story!